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Old Tricks and New Tricks


Bully Behavior Curriculum Page 24

Author: Lynne Namka, Ed. D

Bullying Behavior

  • Using physical aggression ranging from threatening gestures to physical blows.
  • Verbal abuse such as name calling, cussing, blaming and criticizing.
  • Cussing and name calling.

Victim Behavior

  • Giving in.
  • Staying and letting yourself be hurt.
  • Withdrawing and walk away from the threatening event without coming back to deal with the problem.
  • Becoming confused and space out.
  • Not standing up for yourself but turning your anger on someone else.
  • Numbing the anger and denying it.

New Tricks – Healthy Ways to Respond to Treat

  • Shrugging the situation off and get away.
  • Trying to understand why the person did what he did.
  • Taking a time out to sort out feelings and possible solutions then returning to deal with the problem.
  • Using movement or exercise to release the pent-up feelings.
  • Working the anger out through exercise.
  • Talking to someone else to sort out the meaning of the threat.
  • Observing your own body reactions and thoughts.
  • Laughing at the situation or at yourself.
  • Taking direct action and attempting to problem solve the threatening event.
  • Expressing feelings in a socially acceptable way.
  • Setting limits what behavior of an abusive nature will not be allowed.
  • Using the event to learn about yourself and the other person.
  • See things differently so they do not seem so bad.

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